Gone are the days when children relied on their parents to make certain decisions that indirectly controlled their daily activities. Even parents of this generation derive pleasure in purchasing various gadgets for their children ranging from tablets, to iPads, laptops, iPhones, and even games like play station and the likes.
While social media offers numerous benefits, it also raises concerns about privacy, online harassment, misinformation, and addiction. Users should exercise caution, be mindful of their online behavior, and use these platforms responsibly to maximize the positive aspects of social media in their everyday lives
As the adolescent brain is still developing, it’s more vulnerable to time online. And since teens can sometimes struggle to self-regulate their screen time, their exposure – and the risk of harm – increases. As a result, teen social media use often correlates with:
depression
anxiety
low self-esteem
envy
loneliness.
Parents/ Guardian roles in ensuring that social media usage is not abused
1. Monitoring messages and interactions ; you should find out what he/ she does all day on the phone.
who do they spend time with online? What do they talk about mostly? Is it something productive or not? Look out for any signs of cyberbullying, harassment, or inappropriate content. If you notice any concerning behavior, take immediate action by discussing it with your child and, if necessary, reporting it to the relevant authorities.
2. Teach your child about privacy rules: It is important that they know that it is wrong to share personal information, nude pictures or anything that is sensitive. Discussion is key and should not be overemphasized.
3. Screen time evaluation : For me, this is the most important of all. How long should a child sit down to watch cartoons, movies or even be online? Is he/ she of age to even be online? Who gives them data and where do they get money to subscribe? What other offline activities can be beneficial to avoid longer hours online?
Picture :Culled from kids world fun
Every parent must foster trust and ease of communication flow between themselves and their children especially teens who are more prone to the negative side of social media. Set clear guidelines about what type of content is acceptable for your child to view or engage with online. Discuss the potential consequences of accessing inappropriate content and the importance of adhering to age restriction
Finally teach your child/ ward in the way of the lord. This is the best foundation that can keep him/ her standing for the rest of their lives.
Proverbs 22:6 AMP
Train up a child in the way he should go [teaching him to seek God’s wisdom and will for his abilities and talents], Even when he is old he will not depart from it.
AMP: Amplified Bible
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